What should we consider as unwholesome talk?
Discussion question for February 11, 2011.
In Ephesians 4:29 it commands that we should not allow any unwholesome talk come from our mouths. What kind of talk does that include? What about preachers that use profanity or vulgar language from the pulpit? How do your words affect others around you? How do they affect you? What can you do to control your tongue (see James 3)?
Here’s my summary of our discussion.
Our first focus was based on the style and methods used by church leaders, especially preachers, to bring the word of God to their audience. The emergent churches and seeker-oriented services are intent on being relevant in the context of their culture. To that end, they may use language or phrases not deemed acceptable in other cultures. Handling the word of God requires care and respect.
Paul says in 1 Corinthians 9:22 that he would be all things to all people. This is an example of being culturally relevant. However, the “so that” in the verse is to save some. The meaning of the message and the purpose are not to be diluted or distracted from by the way it is delivered. The goal is the salvation of some.
Paul also says in Colossians 4:6 that we should let our speech always be with grace so that you will know how to respond to each person. In other words, make sure the way you speak is compelling for the listener so that they will accept the message.
If the focus of the message becomes the speaker or the shock value of the words, then that is out of line. The focus should always be the truth of God and the purpose to edify and instruct the hearers.
In all areas of communicating truth it is important to beware the loss of focus when trying to contextualize it. Contemporary Christian music is an example where changing the style and wording can make the message more accessible to an audience. In some cases it is counter productive to force a culture to learn a different way of talking or singing for the sake of maintaining traditions. However, just because “the world” sings in a certain way is not reason enough to copy them with a spiritual message.
Our conclusion is that letting your light shine as an example to a dark world (Matthew 5) is best done with authenticity. Be a real witness with every part of your life and the words you speak will be consistent with the character God has developed in you.